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Christian Dating advice?? Hello. I am 19 and will be 20 in August. For the longest time I have not been really too concerned about dating. I have had school, work, and other family concerns that have occupied most of my time. However, the more I see that I am the only one in my family that does not have someone, I start to get upset. I am from a small town, going to school in another small town, etc. and I am looking for a strong Christian guy. Do you have any suggestions of how to meet that special someone in a "non-Christian" environment? I should have reworded that a little better it seems. When I said "non-Christian" environment, I just meant that I do not attend a Christian school. Also, I do attend a very good church, and a young adult Sunday school class, but most are married or "taken".

Teen Christian Dating Advice Please? Okies so I am 15 and I really like this guy. I'm planning to ask him out and kiss him before the end of school... So... I'm a really strong Christian believer and I just want to know... is it okay for you to like make out or french kiss and stuff like that with your boyfriend before marraige? Please I really need to know before next week :S I really like him and hes Christian too so if I just kiss him then he might get mad and and ahh!! Please please help. Thankies

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Christian(s): Christian Dating Advice? Hello everyone. I am a Christian man who is trying his best to live the way God wants him to live. I am not a perfect Christian, but I certianly want to live the way I should. I recently met a lady in my church. She is such a beautiful lady. She makes Haily Berry look bad. We went to work out together, and I think I weirded her out a little bit. Why? I teach music (classical) and at night I am a chorus member in the city Opera. She thought it was interesting, but differemt. Also, she told me that she could not let go of Hip Hop. Now, I have nothing against Hip Hop as an art form. However, some of the things they say in the music are anti - Christ. I did not tell her to much about this because we all have our own convictions. It has been a day or so, and she has not called me back. Should I pray for her and hope we can work things out, or just leave her alone? P.S. All our welcome to answer.

christian dating advice please? you see, theres this girl named angela who is really beautfiuland i have occasionally had dreams about kissing her. i wouuld love to kiss her becuz she is as i said very beautiful, but what i want a relationship that is true love, someone god wants meto be with. truth is, though i find myself very attracted to her, and her frends have asked me repeatedly to ki9ss her becuz she talks about me all the time, the things is i dont feel like im meant to be with her. like, i dont feel like she is a relationship that god has ordained for me. am i wrong? woul di want to kiss her and have her want to kiss me, but god does not want meto be with her? like, would go dgive me attraction to her, but not want me to be with her? whatever he wants im all for.

Christian dating advice...Am I overacting or giving up too easy? Boyfriend of 10 months & I attended a friends event and w/o telling me, he invited a few of his female friends. There were times when we were inches apart & these females greeted him, but he failed to introduce us. The next day I told him I felt hurt and disrespected by his lack of manners. He flipped dismissed my feelings, called me insecure & jealous. He doesn’t feel he has to introduce me to his friends, and if this same situation happened again, he still wouldn’t introduce us. However, he keeps calling saying he loves & wants to be with me & I shouldn’t give up on us. I am hurt that he didn’t introduce us, but even more hurt at his disregard for my feelings. If someone hurts you, and you tell them that they are hurt you, yet they continue to do it, then they don’t care about you or you feelings. I introduce him to my male friends so he can feel secure in what we have. I have nothing to lose, but his trust to gain by doing so. Trust isn’t something that just comes automatically. When I first met him my trust for him was balanced on scale, his actions made that scale go up or down. If he did untrustworthy things then my trust went down, if he did things to make me feel secure in what we shared then it went up. We have more ups than downs, but this is our first big fight and a major down. He told me it was nothing, and doesn’t feel a need to prove or explain anything to me as far as this situation goes. I will sacrifice & compromise a lot to make this relationship work, but not my dignity or respect. I don’t want to end the relationship, but can’t deal with someone that has total disregard for me & my feelings. Is it possible to make this work? Am I being unfair & stubborn? Do you sense pride in my reasoning? He is accusing me of not loving him since I am willing to give up so easily. Is he using reverse psychology? I know how I feel and what I believe is right, but need some good Christian advice to make sure I am not basing my decision on pride & foolishness. With God I know that anything is possible, even saving this relationship. I’ve been praying for him to come around, but is there anything else I can do? I’m at the point where I am just resting in the Lord, but want to know if I should be doing instead of resting or is it him that needs to come around.

ATHEISTS answer please: what potential problems do you see with dating a Christian? Any advice from experience I just asked this question to everyone but it mainly seems to be Christians answering it so now I"m narrowing it down. I've never had romantic feelings for a CHristian before, I always assumed it just wouldn't work out. Now I do have those types of feelings, but am still not sure if it could work in the end. What do you think?

Advice for a Christian dating a Buddhist? I am American, Christian, and my gf is a Korean Buddhist. She seems to get offended whenever I ask her about her religion, which is pretty strange to me, because I don't mind talking about my religion. Any advice? I should say that I dont bring up my religion much with her but dont mind talking about it with other people. I would like to learn about how and what she believes but she seems not to want to talk about it at all. Ok, Here is what the bible says about being married to someone of a different religion: 1 Corinthians 7:12-14 (King James Version) King James Version (KJV) Public Domain 12But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. So it is not forbidden in the bible if any of you Christians are enquiring about this ;)

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i am a christian, dating a mormon.. i need some advice about a few things.? Ok well first off i am a single mom who has already been divorced.. and now raising my 11 month old son.. i am christian, and was raised that way. i do believe it's good to raise your children in your religon.. but i don't want him to think any other religon is wrong, that's for him to decide when he grows up.. ok so that's a little about me.. now i am dating a guy who is mormon.. and he has no problem dating me, or kissing me, any of those things.. even eventually getting romantically involved. but my question is.. is this all ok, i mean if i ever got married to a mormon, i would never become mormon, and i wouldn't raise my son that way. how would all of that work.. i have asked him about the way things work about marrying someone who isn't mormon, and he told me, it doesn't matter what the person is, mormon or not, if you love them, then people will except that you are both different. if we ever had kids. what religon would they be. i am not against his beliefs. also, his family is really into there religon, and i am afraid that they arn't going to except me for being christian. i have nothing against what they believe. i just want to make sure everything is going to be ok, if we were to get serious.. especially because i already have a child of my own, and if i ever get remarried i would love to have more children, and not sure how it would work if whoever i marry is a different religon then me.

I am Christian and dating a mormon... i need some advice about kids.. just read my details? Ok well first off i am a single mom who has already been divorced.. and now raising my 11 month old son.. i am christian, and was raised that way. i do believe it's good to raise your children in your religon.. but i don't want him to think any other religon is wrong, that's for him to decide when he grows up.. ok so that's a little about me.. now i am dating a guy who is mormon.. and he has no problem dating me, or kissing me, any of those things.. even eventually getting romantically involved. but my question is.. is this all ok, i mean if i ever got married to a mormon, i would never become mormon, and i wouldn't raise my son that way. how would all of that work.. i have asked him about the way things work about marrying someone who isn't mormon, and he told me, it doesn't matter what the person is, mormon or not, if you love them, then people will except that you are both different. if we ever had kids. what religon would they be. i am not against his beliefs. also, his family is really into there religon, and i am afraid that they arn't going to except me for being christian. i have nothing against what they believe. i just want to make sure everything is going to be ok, if we were to get serious.. especially because i already have a child of my own, and if i ever get remarried i would love to have more children, and not sure how it would work if whoever i marry is a different religon then me.

Christian Advice! I wanna date my best friend.. shes sometimes brings up that we wont get married . but i do.? I dont know how to tell her i really like her,, im 19 shes 18 shes really a great girl.. i was always that dumb jock that got all the girls and she knew about them.. now i wanna be with her but shes my bestfriend.. through good and bad... no we are both christian. .. advice from a christian perspective would be nice

Has anybody used any of the dating ebooks? Like Christian Carter or the like? What is the best? In desparate need of dating advice, as seems everything i do is wrong, was looking at the ebooks. But seem like a scam, anybody have info?

How close of a relationship should a single christian woman whos dating have with her childrens father? Im a christian single male dating a christian single woman, we look to possible marry. I'm not comfortable pursuing anything any further because of the relationship and current connection (communication) with her childrens father who is in prison. I think to a certain degree the relationship and communication should only be about the children and kept to a minimum. She disagrees. My issues are the way she carries out tasks for him, they act like they were married. My biggest issue is the emotional tie between the two of them. Please help I need advice on the does and donts.

Need dating advice / religious dating? I've tried many of the popular dating sites already like match and plentyoffish.. I'm a very religious person so I'm looking for a man who shares my views and let me tell you, they're quite hard to find on those sites!! So i was hoping to hear from you if you have any other advice (could be web sites or irl) to find that special person that shares your religion? i know many christian people meet their soulmates in church but unfortunately I live in a really small town..

Are there any Christian guys who are virgins but dating girls who are not? I'm 22 and waiting until I'm married to have sex. I'm currently dating a girl who has lived with a guy, slept in the same bed as him and had sex several times with him over 2 years. She's only 20. She's a Christian now though but I can't get over the fact that she has been with another guy intimately!!! Are there any guys who are or have been in my similar situation? What helped you get over that? I need some real, Christian guy advice. Serious answers only please.

HELP! Christian dating boundaries??? I've been getting mixed views on what is moral or immoral to do while dating (within a Christian context). Until marriage: No sex... Obvious. No oral sex... Okay. 2nd base??? Talking dirty? Making out? Kissing? Hugs? Any physical contact? What are your viewpoints? Opinions? Advice? Thanks and God bless! ^^ ----> To dizzy r: I'd be mad if touching my breasts DIDN'T make my boyfriend want to have sex with me! Haha! ^^

Recently, obscene pics from an adult dating site began popping up on my computer. How do I get rid of them? There is a place on the screen when they pop up that says "click here for abuse". When I click it it sends me to a screen that says to remove program go to start>control panel>add and remove programs>"public messenger". But when I get to add and remove programs, public messenger is not one of the programs. There is nothing even similar to it. I've tried e-mailing the site that is sending these pop up ads but it doesn't seem to matter. I am a Christian and I would be mortified if a friend borrowed my computer and one of these ads popped up! I used to belong to a Christian dating site and I'm wondering if that is how this adult dating site got my information. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm tired of seeing women's boobs popping up every time I check my e-mail. Thanks Stacie

relationship problem... christian advice preferred.? I'm 15, im a christian and i met this guy at my church. after a few months we started dating since then we've broken up and gotten back together about 5 times. we were broken up for about a month and we had sex. it was a huge mistake and ive repented and everything and we havent done it since, im aware that he however, doesnt regret it at all. and he even thinks he should stop going to church. we got back together rigth after we had sex and a few days ago he said "what has God really done in my life?" and has said stuff like "its impossible to know that God truly exists you can only hope" i dont know if im wrong here for getting upset with him about those things.i know God exists because i feel him in my life my life hasnt been fine and dandy since i devoted myself to God but that hasnt changed a thing in my faith. the obvious answer would be to break up with him but i love him way too much to think i could. I just need help because i dont know what to do anymore...any advice? i should also say that we argue about the stupidest things everyday. we see eachother and hangout every day and i love hanging out with him... most of the time. he's said he still believes in God but that he just doesnt think church has done anything for him. he hasnt broken up with me we've either agreed on a break or ive broken up with him. i just cant bring myself to break up with him after everything we've been through together.and yes, i know it was a mistake to have sex and NO im not still doing it. and yes he has respected that.ive told him before that tehre are only so many times he can say sorry before it doesnt work anymore but he responded to that by not apoligizing when hes wrong anymore. hwe just waits for me to go to him and act like everythigns fine...

What would you have done? My apostolic friend... Christian advice please :)? My friend has a 16 year old daughter 'Kayla'. Kayla has been dating this guy for about a year and her mom found her cell phone and started reading the text messages. This is what some said: "Text me back. This isn't f**king funny" "You will call me back if you know what is good for you." "I want to go further than just oral..." "Call me back or I'll kill myself" "I hate God and I hope I burn in h*ll" My friend and her family are apostolic Christians and after finding these text messages, she made her daughter and him break up. She said if he doesn't leave the family alone, she might have him arrested (since Kayla was only 15 when they started dating). What is some good advice I can give my friend? Thank you very much **hugs**

Christian advice websites? Hey, y'all? What are some sites or Christian forum-oriented sites with great articles that focus on teenage girls dating older men (ie., a Christian 16 yr old girl dating a 20 year old young man)? I tried to go to two forum websites, and they didn't have any threads on this topic. It's a topic I'm researching. True but I want to do further research and reading as a WRITER. Christian article reading that is. Worst-case scenarios and what not.

Need some advice on dating? I am a single guy age 27. I am a devout christian and have tried dating women from church etc. I honestly havent found much luck. I have a major problem with forever being in the "friend zone" ( I have a million female friends but can never get beyond that point) I am the guy everyone comes to for advice on their relationships but never seem to be able to get a lasting one of my own. I guess Im lookin for ideas on #1- Places I can meet girls who arent lookin just for a a one night bit or a F**K buddy #2- How can I stop this eternal problem of being all the girls "best guy friend" but nothing else?

I wasnt always a nice christian Girl? I am a relativly new christian, and therefore my behaviors have change alot when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. I sometimes get very uncomfortable when men approche me showing interest in me because I have only delt with one christian relationship and that man turned out to be what I believe is the new kind of player who knows many women in the church are seeking christian husbands and uses that to play her. I was very young in christ then. Anyway. I would really like some advice about Christian dating, since biblical characters didnt date. I used to operate in a way that is not acceptable now and am not sure how I should handle men who are interested in dating. I have been celebate for about 4 years and know that sex is not part of what I am willing to do. That is a non-issue, but what about the rest? How does one learn to be a nice christian girl? :O)Thank you.

I need some christian advice....? Hi! I am dating a wonderful man who is a christian. He does have quite the past, which scares me. He has a daughter who is nine..and until recently, he wasn't involved in her life. He is 28 and has been married twice, at the age of 18 and later at the age of 23. He was not really following Christ at that time though. Sometimes, I honestly believe he is the one for me. We attend church together, talk about religious issues...and I love that I can do so openly without judgment. He treats me like a princess and tries to respect all my wishes/beliefs...even the ones he doesn't agree on. However, I still have doubts. His past and our age difference are BIG deals...but I feel so safe and secure and right when I'm with him. We really seem to grow in Christ together...especially when we're attending church, etc. He has changed his life...started school, tried to establish a relationship with his daughter, is clearing up past financial debts, etc. My real question here is...is it okay to have doubts? So many people say if he's the ONE, I wouldn't question it or wonder what else is out there, but I do. I worry that maybe God has something totally different planned for me. Is this normal with any relationship, or do you think it's God telling me to back off? Also, is it a sin to marry someone who has been married? Thanks! I know this is a lot...and any help is appreciated!

need christian advice about a tough decision!? my dad said no dating yet... to keep myself "pure"... but the bible says as long as you keep yourself a virgin until you are married... you are set to go... well theres this really great christian guy that i like for all the right reasons... what is right??? i am not sinning if i date this guy!?!

Christian advice about confessing premarital sex? Pls answer only if you are a brother/sister in Christ. I became a Christian earlier this year. When my husband (call him John) & I were dating, we were sexually active. Summer before engagement (8yrs ago), I cheated on John. I've confessed and asked God to forgive me for having premarital sex with both John and the other guys. For 8 yrs I've been torn about not being truthful with John about being unfaithful, but I can't bear the thought of our marriage suffering or worse John leaving me. We've worked so hard on our marriage and things are going so well now. I feel 100% confident that I will NEVER cheat on him again and my confidence is not based on a feeling, but from having cut off people who made advances. If I confess, he's sure to struggle w/ issues of trust, forgiveness, etc and I truly wonder if he'll wish I never told him. Do I tell him? Will God help him to forgive me even though he's not a follower? I wanted to clarify that I have with grace of God have stopped holding the "affair" over my own head. I tried to break up with John after the affair. Trying to figure out why I was asking to break up he asked me if I had been unfaithful and I lied to him. John is not uninformed, he was misinformed and that is what I continue to struggle with.

Dating advice needed? Hi everyone. I am a white male who is dating an Indian woman. We dated for a year and then I broke up with her because we were getting serious and I felt conflicted. I love her but my family is very religious (Christian) and she is Hindu. Then about 6 months ago we started talking about and now we are dating. She didn't want to get together because she thought I still couldn't get over the fact that she is a different religion than me. We have been dating for three months. But now I am having the same feelings that I am doing something wrong. I think I should break up with her but feel really really bad about it. I know I should tell her the truth but is there an easy way to do it? Or should I just continue to date her until she breaks up with me? Thank you in advance.

Relationship Question........SOMEONE HELP!!! (Some Christian advice PLEASE!!)? Ok so here is the story....my (ex)boyfriend and i had been dating for 2 1/2 years. (BTW we are 18&17) We were both really stong Christian's when we meet but, we let Satan drive our actions and we soon became engulfed with sin. This past weekend we did something that completely ruined our relationship...we lost it to each other. Afterwards we had alot of problems...so we decided to break things off. Two days later he does it again...but with another girl. He told me the next day about everything after he realized what he had done. I am completely done with him and decide that I need to get back with Jesus. So that night he calls and is just seeking God in everything. (which has not been him for a long time) and we are both seeking God's will for our lifes. The question is...if you or someone you know has been through a situation similar to mine...please let me know what they did and if they are truly happy!! Thanks in advance and may God bless you in all that you do. We are already back on the road to God....which means we have turned everything over to him....there will be no more sex or anything that would be a disappointment to him. BTW...SEX before MARRIAGE is AGAINST the Bible...Maybe you should read it cover to cover!!

Christian dating question? Ok, so I met this girl online a few weeks ago (i know that sounds sketchy, but its a clean site) and we've been talking like every other day on the phone (calls, texts). I meet her for the 1st time last Thursday and I really liked her, and I'm assuming she liked me. We're both Christians, but I've had more relationship experience then her (shes never kissed a guy). I want to get to know her more and try to build a relationship, but I'm afraid that since she's probably been waiting for the "right" guy, she might not give me a fighting chance if i'm not "the guy." I want to do this the right way so I'm not even interested in any type of physical stuff. My problem is that she's very shy and I can't tell if she is really interested in me or if she just very hesitant to the whole dating thing. We're going out again this Sat for lunch, but it's just tough to get a feel for this girl. I know this is long, but any advice would be appreciated.

I need some christian advice on a relationship...? I'm nearly 18 years old and I broke up with this guy almost a year ago. I still liked him for some time, but I know that God wants to be first in my life, and I have so much going for me right now that I just dont want a relationship with ANYBODY. He claims hes a christian, but he just doesnt get it. He still really likes me and is now STILL asking my best friend to talk to me. I dont know if he wants her to make me go back out with him or what, but he is driving me insane! The only time he goes to church is if he knows I am going to be there. He goes in the morning only if theres a chance he'll see me. He'll wait in his car until the service is over than come in, or he will stay outside. And this is a guy that claims he loves God, yet he doesnt understand that I'm not intrested in dating him, or anybody. I want to go to school, and I am putting Christ first in my life. I'm at the point where I really just want to punch him in the head. What should I do?? I have tried having people talk to him, but he doesnt really listen. I think I'm going to bring it to my youth pastor. I dont want to shut him out completely and ignore him, but I'm beginning to think thats the only thing I can do. Thanks so much. Its not that I dont want any relationships, but as far as dating goes, how can you invite someone to be a part of your life when you dont even have a life to share yet? I know theres someone out there for me, I'm just waiting till God tells me who it is. thanks to all who answered

Christians in relationships: Christian advice needed? Is it reasonable for Christians to save themselves for marriage even if they've been dating for 10 years? The reason they haven't gotten married is because they're working towards their future and are not financially ready. My man and I have been trying very hard to just wait. Sometimes we cross the line going a bit far. I'm very much in love with him that its hard not to wanna be close. I just feel like I'm a bad person in God's eyes and I'm probably going to hell. That is my biggest sin.

i need some advice dating advice? the facts: i really like this awesome christian guy and i would like to be with him. he's one of my good friends and i don't want to mess things up b/w us if he doesn't like me back. especially since we're going on a 10 week mission trip together this summer. i don't want things to be akward while we're there. the problem: i haven't dated in years. and i'm scared to tell him i like him. i don't even know how to tell him. HELP!! more details: *i think about him constantly. *we talk all the time online. and he usually speaks first. *i don't think about him lustfully. i just like him for who he is is there any way that i can subtely let him know that i'm interested? either in person or while talking online.

please i need help on dating (for christian believers only please)? hi i'm 16 yrs. old and i've been dating this guy who is not a Christian. wen i started dating him i wasnt interested in serving God but i am now and my boyfriend does not believe in God in fact he told me he sort of believe in the devil... but ive begun to really like this guy he is very sweet and a guy anyone can ask for and i dont know wat to do because i feel guilty dating him and i've prayed him like i've never prayed for anyone before and i hate the fact that he's not a Christian but i've seen him change through prayers and my parents dont know bout him or they would kill me please any advice?!?!?!?!?!

Needing good Christian advice...? I know divorce is a sin, but I can't stand my husband anymore. We have been married 3 years. We have a 2-1/2 year old daughter. My husband is not involved in our lives. He plays his video games all the time instead of interacting with us. He doesn't have any paitience for our toddler(yells at her over the smallest stuff), and sometimes even pushes her away. He blames me for everything bad that happens to him. He has even told me that I need to give up all my friends for him. I feel like his maid most days than his wife. He has even started yelling at some of my family when I'm not around. He has become rude and disrespectful. He was never like this when we were dating. I don't want to be around him anymore. And every time I try to tell him how I feel, he somehow manages to throw a big guilt trip on me for feeling the way I do. Please help me! when I say he wants me to give up my friends, it means he wants me to give them up completely. It's been a few years since I've seen most of my friends because we moved. He just doesn't want me to have any friends at all.

non christian dating/marrying a christian? although me and my bf are both too young to be thinking about marriage...but i do want him to get to know God and ofc possibly marry him. before i got together with my bf...i prayed to God for months and months for an answer to see if i should date my bf...i didn't quite hear yes or a no..but i ended up getting with him (bc i thought it's not marriage anyways)..but now i DO think about marriage and i DO wnat him to be baptised as well. he has been going to church with me (on and off though..but he goes 90% of the time) since we got together (1 1/2 years)...and i freak out at times bc i m so afraid he won't turn to God and i m super afraid to loose him. We broke up for two months before and during that time i prayed to god and said that if he didn't want us to be together..then i want Him to obstruct all possibility of us getting back together. and well...we got back together...so what does that mean? give me your opinon on this and all advice. (: we rarely talk about religion because like alot of ppl said..you don't want to force, pressure, or even indoctrinate anyone into a religion...so i definetly don't do that...but i just encourage him and invite him to church events etc...and let him get to know church friends etc

Can I get some Christian Advice? Something awful has happened within my family. My brother has stopped going to mass and has started calling himself an atheist. Ever since then he's started listening to weird music, and putting product in his hair, and he's having these red growths with white dots on his face. I know he's only 13, but I'm worried he's already on his way to hell. All he talks about is logic and science, and the other day he was even talking about dinosaurs walking around millions of years ago, which is impossible. I think he's in the occult now? When we locked him in his room to confront him about why he thinks there is no God and that the Earth is millions of years old, he started talking about witchcraft, like carbon dating? And relativity? ANd black holes? We fear Satan has taken him, what should we do? He's my baby brother, but I think we need to send him to Jesus Camp?

I really need some Christian Advice for my family??? Something awful has happened within my family. My brother has stopped going to mass and has started calling himself an atheist. Ever since then he's started listening to weird music, we found this "backstreetboys" cd in his room? We played it backwords and heard messages from Satan.And he's putting product in his hair, and he's having these red growths with white dots on his face. I know he's only 13, but I'm worried he's already on his way to hell. All he talks about is logic and science, and the other day he was even talking about dinosaurs walking around millions of years ago, which is impossible. I think he's in the occult now? When we locked him in his room to confront him about why he thinks there is no God and that the Earth is millions of years old, he started talking about witchcraft, like carbon dating? And relativity? ANd black holes? We fear Satan has taken him, what should we do? He's my baby brother, but I think we need to send him to Jesus Camp? 1 day ago -

Hebrew dating a Christian?????? Im a christian (raised in the episcopal church) woman on the fence about continuing to date a guy of the hebrew religion. I dont really know much about this religion and what they do and dont believe in. However there was an incident between us that deals with religion and has me unsure of whether or not I should continue to date him. We were riding in my car one day and I have a rosary hanging from the rearview mirror. (I went to catholic school the majority of my life so thats where the rosary part comes in.) So he comes out with I need to remove it from my car cause it doesnt mean anything. And he's going to have to stop riding in my car because of it. So he starts questioning me about why I believe in it and do I believe in it becuse of what Ive been taught or what Ive learned, I guess from reading or something. He was driving my car when he said this. So my first reaction was a lil anger (because here you are driving my car and I feel like he was disrespecting me in my property) which turned into me being hurt but now Im starting to get angry again. He's apologized but I truly feel like he disrespected my religion so there's no reason to continue seeing him. Which is really hard cause I really care about him but I feel like he's trying to make me deter away from being a christian, which is never going to happen. Does anyone have any advice???? Just to clarify, he considers himself as Hebrew he never says he's Jewish. We're not young kids either. Im 24 and he's 34. Also Ive met his mother not the father. I know his father is of the same religion but Im not sure of his mother.

I need good, Christian advice? I am a bit troubled. I believe my son has a girlfriend, because she left a dirty magazine with men in it under his bed. My son is only 16 and I really don't think he's ready to date yet. What's worse is that he's sneaking some girl to his room behind my back. I need help, God! I want my son to stop being so secretive!

What kind of advice should I give my shy friend concerning dating? She's been single for 3 years, had two very insignificant b/fs in high school that didn't even last a month. The problem? She's so shy. And when there is a guy she likes, she's either met him off the Internet or is so nervous with him in person that she finds it hard to say a word to him. I want to help her be happy. What kind of advice should I give her to help her date? Are there places I should take her .... she's 20, btw, so bars and things are probablty out of the question (she probably wouldn't go to those anyway). I have no idea what to say because I've never been shy and I have no trouble getting dates. She's extremely nice and everyone likes her and such but usually the guys she likes ends up just leading her on or do something stupid. She's now wanting to find Christian guys but I have no clue on where she should go (church is not an option because she works at a church on Sundays) Any ideas?

I know this girl for about 4 years, recently we start dating, need advice? She is Christian and I am a non-christian. She will say I am spiritually low and not equally yoked. So I convert but she want more from me, want me to work towards discipleship. I means it is just a few months only, can't I get to know God first slowly. Can't I just be a worshipper. But she keep preaching to me, saying if I can't then we can't be together. Do you have advice on this. I first came to her for courtship for love. But it seems like she is looking for a guy who can fulfil as her ideal partner. I love her but I don't deserve sure a treatment. I have my timing pace of reading daily bread and the bible. But she keep pushing me. What should I do? She will always preach to me almost everyday. I having sleepless night over the pressure. She meet me but don't talk like normal couple do, but always preaching to me about God way for me. I have told that be disciple or worshipper is my relationship with God. He have his plan for me even before I ask, right. Why force on it. I am comfortable with converting to a Christian, but I need to do it at my own pace. I need to learn to crawl before I learn to walk and then run. I reading bible and daily bread, what is called false conversion? I converted because I was introduced to God by her. Have no regrets, it is for my own good too. But I don't feel good about been 'push' towards knowing God. Everyone have a different pace of learning.

Christian advice please....? My sister is mentally ill, my parents are giving up...she has an eating disorder. I go to school...im in an university...i commute with my father... i still dont know how to drive... not because they havent tried teaching me...i just cant get it right. My boyfriend and I dated for 8 months... I was very uptight about things like sex... and my beliefs and morals...those changed with him...when I was with him, I was distracted of my other problems. Now he left because he says that God told him that he is going to be alone forever. whatever, i cried a lot...now im just lonely as hell...at my church I'm just a number...im not doing anything...i want to do something more, like be in charge of something...everyone literally doesnt like us...because the church is composed of people who are part of the same family who dont like us. I want to start MY life Im sick of my current situation...i have prayed... i feel he doesnt listen... I want to do something meaningful for God. I need help! Its been like a year an a half with the same feelings and situations... I feel soo alone...i dont have any REAL friends...i Know God is with me.... but I just dont understand.. I want to run away.... live on my own...but I dont have the resources...im 19 years old... I FEEL like giving up...seriously.

Christian teen dating? my girlfriend and i have been dating for a few months, and bestfriends for years. We both feel we are in love, and never going to leave each other.. we are both involved in church, and we just dont know how far to far is, in the 1st base, 2nd base and so on... we need help setting our bounderies, we used to do alot, but recently stopped. if anyone has any advice please help us

need christian love advice!? okay so a leader at my church has asked me out on a date. now im still in youth group.. im 4 years younger than me. we are supposed to go out on thrusday, but i dont know i kind of feel weird him being a leader and all.. what should i do?! oppss. i meant older than him* not me hehe

I need some advice from Christian divorced men/women, serious answers only please? I've been divorced about 7 years, my daughter is 9 now. when she was 6 months and my life was crashing down I finally turned everything to the Lord, asked for forgiveness and accepted Jesus as my Lord and Saviour. I started dating about 3 years ago and quickly met a nice Christian man. at about 10 months he was having committment issues I guess, so that ended. We remained celibate(although no one believed that) through our relationship. Since that ended 1 1/2 yr. ago, I've been trying to meet Christian men to no avail. My church is small so no luck there. I have dated other men but the talk about the Lord is missing. I recently met a man and I'm embarrased to say that my libido is in high gear. I enjoy his company and the physical component I foresee as a problem. I'm having a very hard time resisting. I miss the companionship and physical aspect of a marriage. I know it would be wrong, but I'm wavering. I'm very attracted to him and I've only seen him three times. My former husband left me, after 15 years of marriage and our 9 month old daughter for another woman and got her pregnant. So as far as divorced and not being Christian I cover the Bible's release by infidelity and abandonment.

Need some serious advice about DATING and RELIGION!!!!!!? Ok... I like this guy and he likes me. And ever since we've met we've basically been inseparable. However he always seemed like he never wanted to make "that move" you know. So when I asked him he told me flat out that we couldn't be together because he only believes in dating to get married and we couldn't get married (hypothetically) because his religion doesn't allow him to marry outside of it or they'll basically disown him. So after he tells me this he still is really acting like he wants to be with me. Of course I'm not going to deal with the heartache of falling even more for him, so I told him that we needed to spend some time apart so I could try to get over it. So he didn't really take this well and everytime I saw him afterwards he looked heartbroken. Now he treats me so weird and it's like he trying to drive me away. He even told me that he want's to make this easier for me. What should I do? And I'm not converting because I'm grounded in the Christian faith.

Im a Christian male who is dating a Muslim girl. I Want to marry her but her parents dont know about me? Im 22, and she's 20. We've been dating for almost 4 years now and I hope to marry her but shes afraid to tell her parents because of our differeing beliefs. I'm truly in lovew with her and I'm just looking for advice for my situation, or maybe somebody has been in this situation before. Just wondering what I can do to make it work out. thanks. Converting would work, but I dont think her parents will even accept that. Im not very deep in my religion, I dont go to church or anything, the problem is mainly on her end.

Chrisitians: Dating a christian backslider? I know it is wrong to be unequally yoked but I love him and I don't know what to do and how to get him back to church. Advice anyone? Someone who has strayed away from God

Christian Books on Dating? I am wondering if any christians out there can recomend books on dating. I am currently in a relationship and I am looking for some advice. We're not at the stage were books about dating/marraige would be appropraite. Thats a while down the road.

My sister is dating a non-Christian..? and she is torn on whether or not to marry him. (he wants to get married). He is very supportive of her faith but doesn't exactly share it. They are great together and love eachother.. she doesn't want to make a mistake but doesn't want to lose him just because of where he is (and of course, there are no guarantees that the christian you marry will remain a christian either, as I have personally seen with other friends). What kind of advice should I give her? It seems so right for them to be together and they love and respect eachother so deeply... Grace, I think it's dangerous to hope for no change in people. If I had never changed, I would never be a new person in God Dear rnd1938, Being a Christian does not make you a non-sinner. It's impossible to avoid marrying sinners!