Christian Dating Guide

Are Christian women any different when it comes to committed relationships?

Every relationship that I have ever been in has gone badly… the only common threads between them have been that they were either on the fence or non-Christians and in each case they all cheated or broke up with me to cheat. I myself have never cheated, almost never drink, don’t use drugs, and have always respected women and I try to use Jesus as the role model for my life. Now that I have become more committed in my walk with the lord all I seem to see is broken women that don’t know how to truly love. I want so badly to have a family of my own and I need to know if there are any truly strong spirit filled women left in the world.

Public Comments

1. A true Christian woman walks the paths of righteousness, and will not too likely to stray from the commandments. Your answer is yes.
2. I understand how you feel. I am a Christian girl as well and have always faced such a problem. I seldom have the hots for Christian guys (when they're already rare enough!), and have always fallen for non-Christian guys. But I guess at the end of the day, wait on the Lord and i'm sure the Creator has made a partner meant for us specifically. I'm sure He does =)
3. I am a strong Christian and I am in a current relationship with a Christian that has lasted for a year and nine months. In fact, all of my relationships have been long ones. (Almost 4 years, 3 months, almost 2 years, etc) I don't know if my being Christian, or the fact that 3/4 of my relationships were with Christians, has anything to do with the fact that I have had long and committed relationships. I do know that being close to Christ has kept me away from guys who drink, do drugs, cheat, etc. So to answer your last comment-- Yes! There are many strong, beautiful Christian women out there just waiting to meet the right guy, which could, in fact, be you. Don't give up-- good luck! :)
4. I call myself a Christian although i dont go to church anymore much & i have 2 grown up kids & have been married for ever & never have cheated because i would not like myself if i did cheat & my marriage has had problems like the next person but I'm not the type to run to another guy & cheat & there will be stacks of women like me around just make sure you pick the right women never pick one who has cheated as they are always cheaters & pick a stable woman & when you have her you MUST always act the same nice way with her as when you met her, very loving & put her before you & make her feel very special & adored not just when you want sex always
5. yes
6. Absolutely there are plenty of spirit filled women with whom you can commit and the each of your walks will become stronger because of the other. However, dont forget that Christians are forgiven but not perfect. We are first and foremost human and prone to human errors. Just because she is Christian doesn't mean she (or he for that matter) won't "fail" in some way. You will "fail" her in some way as well. The important thing is the condition of your relationship with the Lord and her. My suggestion is to get and stay active in the singles group with your church. The longer you are there and an active member the easier you will find 1) how to detect the truly committted Christian from those that are "spouse-hunting" (it happens believe me) and 2) you will find it easier to be friends and learn what each others walk is like. Love is amazing and can come to that situation. My sister has been married about a year to a man that she knew as friends for 10 years. They spent a lot of time at their church's singles activities. It was when they became closer friends and went through a crisis that they realized they were in love. It's not impossible. God will bring you together with the right person on His time and when you are both ready.