Christian Dating Guide - As a teenage girl, what is a good Christian relationship?

As a teenage girl, what is a good Christian relationship?

I already know that there should be no sex before marriage. And i'm trying to rise above all people who say teenagers cannot make it in their relationship. Me (16) and my boyfriend (17) both know that Christ gave up his life for us. And even if we end up in separate ways, we know that God has the best planned out for us. But as a teenage girl, not married.. it's really hard to be this kind of relationship. However i am smart enough to realize that God's way is the best way, and his way is the only way that will last. I love this dude to death, and i'm trying to be the best girlfriend.. in his eyes and God's. oh and please Christians only. I don't give a shi t about what you "Christian haters" got to say thank you very much. hahaha buddism that make me chuckle. But to add to this, we are in a interracial relationship, and it is really hard for me especially because my family will not accept him. Someone said a man has to be strong, strong willed in God's words. He needs to listen to God, and follow his commands. Not many guys are like this, not many guys can make me feel like this so i do not intend on finding someone different unless God tells me to. He brings me closer to God so that's why i'm gonna stick with him forever

Public Comments

do what you feel is right!
THERE IS NO GOD HAV SEX
It seems like you already know the answer to the question by the way you asked. You and your boyfriend seem responsible enough to keep a good, clean relationship.
If you trully love him, don't bring him into temptation
oh and please Christians only. I don't give a shi t about what you "Christian haters" got to say thank you very much. _________________ Oooh, feisty aren't you?
I must first applaud you for sticking with standards in a time when most will tell you to just do what feels good (that's what dogs do)... I think one of the best books on the subject (one the both of you can/should read together) is called "When God Writes your Love Story" it will help you to see what is truly important in developing a relationship and give you good strong principles for growing together in a Godly way
I say convert to Buddhism and hope that you are both reincarnated as goats. Then the both of you can be ... Baaaaad as you wish.
Hi, I'm Muslim and basically we are in the same boat. I mean the rules in my family were always: 1. NO SEX (They didn't even tell us this; we just KNEW) 2. Nothing close to sex (touching intimately, making out, sleeping together, being alone etc) 3. Discouraged: kissing 4. Okay: hugging, holding hands 5. Perfectly fine: clean talk, hanging out in the public, phone calls, email, just clean fun. 6. Encouraged: Doing religious things together, getting the families involved etc. 7. The best: get engaged someday and plan for marriage =D That was basically our rules to dating; so we could go to the movies, to the park, shopping, on walks etc. But stuff like clubbing and pubbing? Nooo way. Peace and may God bless u for ur concern.
You are one smart girl to begin with, but he is not the only guy in earth if he leaves you, you might see the whole world as hell, please don't do that though, anyway you should maintain the relationship as chaste as possible and in the near future I am certain that you will be a good Mother, I guess to make a good relationship out of you is to keep loving each other and do not force each other to do anything against both of your will, God has planned out the best for both of you and you it would never hurt to obey him oh and I am sure it is OK to show affection except sex though anything else like making out and stuff I guess its ok as long as you preserve your virginity until your wedding day, oh and let your parents know
When ur r/s with God is close, u will trust him more, and e more u trust in him u will know that he loves u more than anyone on this planet earth and he has e best plan for u - "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." - Jer 29:11 (NIV)