Christian Dating Guide

I go to a christian social group with a woman named Lacey,I have wanted to date her since October,?

me and Lacey never talked except casual conversation.We‘ve been going to our group since April 2007.However, I doodled on pics of her on face book as a joke and I didn‘t know they would be sent to her friend,I hugged her once casually,and I emailed her sister making fun of her team (my friend told me these things aren‘t a big deal).My youth pastor disciplined me about this.Despite this she wanted to talk to me.So I showed up inexpertly at her house one night (8pmish) to talk to her about my recent actions,and about maybe dating like she wanted to talk to me.I knocked at her door twice,each time she said “come in” I went in,her 2 guy friends were there,she gave me a soda and her guy friend drove me home.They were shocked..I found out her dad is know threatening to press charges if I contact her again.I need to clear this up with her and talk to her about our relationship etc,I know if I can just talk to her everything would be ok,but I also think I should wait til everything is settled.Our youth pastor who disciplined me who with our student pastor Megan,broke the news about lacey’s dad considering pressing charges if I contact her last week.However on Sunday my youth pastor seemed to lighten his stance,he said “I wouldn’t contact her,wait don’t contact her or there will be big trouble for you” why did he slip the first time!! Help!

Public Comments

1. well , if her name was Alice it would be different
2. Best to wait until this mess blows over. If you want to say anything, just pass a message through your pastor saying simply that you are sorry.
3. Okaaaayyyy...you sound like a stalker. You should just let it be cool....don't contact her and try to find someone else to obsess over.
4. Just so you know, unless you are harassing her there is no law about talking to someone so not sure what kind of charges dad is going to press.
5. This sounds totally moronic. You sound like a total idiot.
6. There must be something you're leaving out. All you did was email her? her sister?
7. I have a feeling there is more to the story than you are telling us. You've done some rather mean things that you have told us about and if you have done anything worse why would think it would make a girl want to date you. You catch more flies with honey than you do vinegar. Sounds like the damage in done. Walk away and leave her alone. Next time you like a girl, try and be nicer.
8. You can try talking to her through her friends or your friends. I don't understand why she and her friends and dad were so surprised and upset when you went to her house after she said she wanted to talk to you.