Christian Dating Guide - i need some advice dating advice?

i need some advice dating advice?

the facts: i really like this awesome christian guy and i would like to be with him. he's one of my good friends and i don't want to mess things up b/w us if he doesn't like me back. especially since we're going on a 10 week mission trip together this summer. i don't want things to be akward while we're there. the problem: i haven't dated in years. and i'm scared to tell him i like him. i don't even know how to tell him. HELP!! more details: *i think about him constantly. *we talk all the time online. and he usually speaks first. *i don't think about him lustfully. i just like him for who he is is there any way that i can subtely let him know that i'm interested? either in person or while talking online.

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write him a letter telling him how u feel.
Just very light heatedly say hey I kinda like you, than his response will tell you how far you should go.
I've been there!! Just drop small hints in casual conversation. Maybe for instance if he mentions something about not finding the 'right person" yet, you could come back with "well maybe what you're looking for is right under your nose and you haven't looked there yet." GOD doesn't always smack us over the head and point us where we should go, He will give a nudge and let us take over.That's the great and bad thing about Him.He watches out for us but wont drag us about by the arms either.Pray about it and listen He will answer. God be with you!!
Talk to him w/ur eyes. There is absolutely no need for you to say anything verbally to embarrass either one of you. All you have to do is catch his eye...and I mean really hold his gaze and he will know that you are interested. After that point just see how he behaves toward you. If he is interested he will let you know. If he isn't then you won't have to be embarrassed because you haven't said anything. This may sound crazy but trust me...I'm a master flirt. :-)
How to Tell Your Guy Friend You Like Him More Than a Friend It's happened to many girls. You're friends with him and then, oops, you fall for him... What do you do? Read on! Steps Make sure he doesn't like anyone else first. Send him secret little notes telling him that someone he knows likes him. That way if he's your friend he'll tell you how he feels about the notes. Own up. If he tells you he wants to know who it is, tell him that you are the one who sent the notes. Be generous. Once you tell him that it was you, also tell him that he doesn't have to like you back and that you hope that this will not ruin your friendship. Refer to step 1. If he tells you about the notes and tells you that he thinks whoever is sending him the notes is a freak, decide if you want to tell him. Or bold and refer to yourself as "that freak" and have it sorted there and then. He may be shocked enough to admit he likes you and will apologize. (If not be a good sport and you will still be good friends and who knows something may happen in the future) Tips Once you tell him that that it was you ,do not keep on blabbering. Get to the point. Sit quietly and wait for a response. Don't worry if he doesn't say anything - he might just be in shock and it'll take him a while to let it sink in. Warnings Do not do this if your friend already has a girlfriend. He may end up hating you. And it could ruin your friendship. Things You'll Need : Confidence. good smelling breath a pretty smile. clean teeth be a good sport. patients. Be polite and respect his opinion/choice. If you ever need anything else email me @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com *Much Love* **God Bless**
Friend----start a conversation----then say-----i have been wondering-----would you like to 'hang out sometime?' this is effective and will find out right away----and thats what you need here-----tell him you were thinking about going to the shopping mall (or wherever you prefer) and was wondering if he would like to go with you.----------this is good if you know him just a wee bit. If you do not know him at all-----start a conversation with a friendly smile (always advised)------------and then simply say----"I was wondering what my chances are of getting to know you better?"
You already have. And he has already expressed interest in you. So, since your reluctant, you might just wait it out. It won't be long.
I was best friends with my fiance before we started dating for about 3 years. I told him how I felt and at first he was a little shocked and then a week later he asked me out. I have been with him for 11 years now. His my best friend and I would not choose anyone else to share my life with. All you need to do is make the first move and tell him how you feel.