Christian Dating Guide

please i need help on dating (for christian believers only please)?

hi i'm 16 yrs. old and i've been dating this guy who is not a Christian. wen i started dating him i wasnt interested in serving God but i am now and my boyfriend does not believe in God in fact he told me he sort of believe in the devil... but ive begun to really like this guy he is very sweet and a guy anyone can ask for and i dont know wat to do because i feel guilty dating him and i've prayed him like i've never prayed for anyone before and i hate the fact that he's not a Christian but i've seen him change through prayers and my parents dont know bout him or they would kill me please any advice?!?!?!?!?!

Public Comments

1. exorcism wouldnt hurt.
2. well i dont really know what your asking here but if you really like him and you think he likes you then dont let him go... stay with him and give him as much as you can. love hurts so you dont want to loose him
3. pray and pray. just keep praying and discuss god with him/show how you believe in god around him.
4. Sweetie, this is one thing that I don't think you can or need to be messing with - especially at 16. As much as it sucks to hear, there are some people that, no matter how much you care about them, a relationship isn't a positive idea for either of you. As much as it hurts, I vote for breaking off the relationship now before you get too much deeper into this.
5. well, i belive in the devil (its in the Bible) but that doesn't mean I follow it!! anyway, I suggest you pray, and show him some passages in the bible like John 3:16 and some things in revelations. Your sister in Christ, Roxy W.
6. You need to stop trying to change people and being so judgemental. If he's a good person that you care about who are you to judge him for not being a Christian? Do you even know the root of Christianity? What makes you think being a Christian is better than anything else. Ridiculous. This is a waste of my time.
7. they always say two people with the same religion will get along better then two people who dont have anything in common when it comes to religion. what if you two get married and have a big argument on what your kids should believe and not believe? youre gonna have alot of trouble with this. but if you still want to be with a guy who chooses to believe in the devil, and youre praying for that to change.....then umm i guess keep praying. i would want to be with another believer, just my opinion. EDIT: maybe God put you in his path so that he can finally wake up and say "oh! there is a God." i would probably give him a few more months maybe, see if he change.
8. it might be a stage i hate to admit it, but i live in a very catholic family and im starting to doubt in god but i dont believe in the devil or anything i think thats just a bit strange. But maybe you should have a serious talk to him about it.
9. Ask God if he is the one for you. I did. I was answered in a dream very clearly a voice said " he is the one, he loves you". He believes in God but not the most "perfect"christian stereo-type.
10. Well, there's a boundary here. It's important for both partners to be spiritually connected with each other, but at the same time, people marry interreligiously all the time and have great marriages once they understand one anothers belief. But the part that would be unacceptable is if he downs your belief or tries to drive you away from God. If he wants to believe in the Devil, thats between him and God and only he can find his real place. Its nice to maybe talk to him about Christianity once in awhile. But when it gets to the point that it's becoming stressful and driving you away from the faith, thats were you have a problem.
11. Well the way how god wants it is that its ok for christian guys to date/marry no christianed girls because man have like all the power in the house well like amn of the house who controls what happens. but its not ok for christian girls to date/marry none chirstian guys because then they'll stop going to church and being christian if the guy family don't want to go or be.(note not his happens on all occasions but moslty do happens though) like for example. my sis got married to a shaman guy and now she doesn't go to church and losing her faith because his side of the family doens't belive in god.
12. If he's not dangerous, like you would be scared to tell him, tell him what you think. I know that will be really, really hard, but if you're a Christian, and you pray for him, it should be fine. Another approach would be to pray about a verse in the bible. Give him something, with that verse written on it. Or you could say: "Hey ________. Hey um, I wanted to tell you something. I don't like the fact that you aren't a Christian. I love Jesus and all that He has to offer. I want you to see that. I'm not sure how our relationship is going to work out if you can't see that." Don't be too hard. Just pray. More. We're not supposed 2 date either, courting is our "thing". I want to tell you 2 break up with him. If you love him, do anuthing. Really, you need to pray. Light some candles in your room, open up your bible on your bed, and just.....pray. Play some music 2
13. Find a new bf.....seriously. Someone with the same beliefs as you. It's really important, and I promise you will be really glad you did it.
14. well, you should not date those who don't believe, but since you are, keep praying, like you are. take him to church, i have a friend who was an atheist, and i took her to church, and liked it, she now is saved and goes regularly. i will pray that he becomes a christian. and tell your parents, it's not good to hide those kinds of things from them
15. well, what do you mean by your parents would kill you? is it about dating a non believer, or about dating anyone? if it's about dating a non believer, i think that it would be best for you not to date him, because it's really easy to be swayed from what you believe in that sercumstance. i no it's not probably what you want to do, but i think that it would be best for you. and i think that you should tell him that you shouldn't date him for that resaon. but don't just turn around and forget that he exists. still be friends with him, and reach out to him so that he can see God's light shining through you, and so that he might want what you have! and KEEP PRAYING FOR HIM!!!! i think that that's so good that you're doing that! i also think that you should tell your parents. i know that sounds crazy, but your parents love you and want what's best for you. and they have experiance, and would be the best people to help you know what to do, because they know you better than anyone on here!
16. Hi, Fellow Christian I am a firm believer in Christ, and i'm lucky enough to be surounded by Christians as well. I would kind of keep this guy under the radar for now. I mean, think about this; would you want someone you love going to hell? Theres plenty of fish in the sea, sister. And anyway, your only 16! Keep looking for that special someone. And when you find that Christian Believer with the perfect smile, quietly thank me. Good luck with future relationships, ~Stropko
17. Why would your parents be upset? Do they have a rule? God says to honor your parents. Christians believe in the devil too. He probably doesn't really know what he's talking about when it comes to Christianity. Maybe you should just start talking to him about it and teaching him and maybe see if he'll come to church. Since God is number one in your life, think carefully and pray for guidance and wisdom before giving your heart to this boy. Your in a tough position and you will have many more in your Christian walk, but keep your faith!
18. I know how awkward that can be, because I had a similar problem in high school. I was a Christian and my boyfriend wasn't, and he had this weird fascination with demons. I liked him, but I was always uncomfortable around him. Didn't work out...what can I say? You can't change somebody's mind by wishing they would change their mind.
19. Sit him down and say _____(name) i really like you. but i am christian and would like to great part in christianity. I would like a christian family with a christian life. So i think we should stop seeing each other =[