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Im a Christian male who is dating a Muslim girl. I Want to marry her but her parents dont know about me?

Im 22, and she's 20. We've been dating for almost 4 years now and I hope to marry her but shes afraid to tell her parents because of our differeing beliefs. I'm truly in lovew with her and I'm just looking for advice for my situation, or maybe somebody has been in this situation before. Just wondering what I can do to make it work out. thanks. Converting would work, but I dont think her parents will even accept that. Im not very deep in my religion, I dont go to church or anything, the problem is mainly on her end.

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1. Convert to a Muslim. If you are a true Christian you must know that Islam is the religion that followed Christianity and the seal of all religions.
2. it doesn't matter if you are muslim or christian when u are in love so go ahead marry to her even their parents wont agree with u guys.
3. I find it amazing that her parents don't know about you after four years. Talk with her about it. See if she's willing to defy her parents for you. If she isn't, you should walk away. You're young, you can find other girls to love and marry. If she's willing to defy her parents to marry you, then you should definitely sit them down and talk about it. Who knows? You might get a good reaction. It's doubtful, but still a possibility.
4. if you love her and she loves you then her parents will just have to dare with it. Her parents just should be happy for they daughter that she found someone that loves her. So if you love her just ask her to marry you then you both together and go talk to her parents everything should be OK.
5. if you both love each other n has same burning desire to get married.., things can be worked out.., if anyone supports you or not. Try if her parents agree.., if they dont.., go elop n get marrired.., that what my sister did.., my sis is Hindu..n her hubby is muslim.., her parents..did not support her.., so they eloped..n got married.., it was almost 22 yrs back..! now they happy with the kids..!
6. Jesus said: "whoever is not with me is against me". Even though it is hard, you have to make a choice between your faith in Him, or your love for this girl. The two could never peacfully co-exsist. One of you will have to convert to the others religion, or it would be an unhappy marriage. I have seen more people abandon thier faith over a relationship over the years, and it is sad. seek counsel from your pastor, and pray, truly ask what God wants you to do. Then follow it, or you will never have peace. I know......
7. Maybe you can study to understand Muslim first before u decide to marry her. In order with her MUSLIM parents, they may not like you because you are not a true born raised in the muslim world. SO i say study first to understand before u make a big step . i truly understand that you love her deeply .. Be caution and aware of whats gpoing on in her world before u take it very seriously. WHat if the parents refused let u marry her.. Most muslim girls must obey their parents no matter what? Tough choices! I was with Muslims when i was in Malaysia. I SEE HOW THE MUSLIM FAMILIES ARE LIKE. Interesting but diffcult for me to understand why they are like that. I do Understand their culture and customs in the muslim world which i respect them. i know for sure that i cannot marry a muslim guy
8. dont convert, its not going to work her family will never approve of you that's fact your going to be involved in alot of pressure from your side and hers....... I know that my best Friend (who's a guy) did the same he couldn't face the reality of it and thought it would be a good idea cause of his love for her and he ended up fighting and arguing with his family and pushed everyone away she made him into a man who puts his head down all the time.......the religion looks good to some people but if you were to learn deep its alot of things that can be overwhelming and let me tell you honestly she needs to not have that much power over you and what you be live in if its ever going to work you need to have a clear head and really think whats gonna happen when I talk to my friend now and then he is really not happy the way he was in the beginning He complained about how she changed and how her family controls him My caution if your going to cut off you balls for her do what makes you happy I hope you the best and always look for the red flags when you are with anyone because its your future and Good Luck to what you choose in life..............
9. I am married to a devote Muslim man and have moved to a Muslim country. From personal experience, if she truly follows her beliefs, she will be prohibited from marrying you unless you convert to Islam (this is not true for women who marry men though). You said you are not a precticing Christian, but you need to seriously sit down and think this through. One also has to wonder, if she truly loves you like she said she does, then why hasn't she told her parents during one point or another of these past 4 years? Find out where you both stand on the issue, and have a good long talk with her about all of this.
10. I'm pretty surprised to see you posting this on here knowing that we actually have the same problem. My boyfriend is Christian and I'm Muslim. We've been knowing each other for 3 years now. we're planning to get married and be together, I dont see any problem, He'd convert to Islam but the problem is my family wont ever accept the relationship because of our different backgrounds so I decided to make it legally when I turn 25, I'm 18 and so is he. Good Luck with your relationship, Dont let anybody stop you after all if you did you'd lose the sweetest thing in your entire life.
11. mr pernal. you know how your muslim girl feels about this and you know her views. all you can do now is wait for her to decide what she is going to do. im pretty sure she wants to tell her family she just doesnt know how and is scared of losing them. and you know how much her family means to her. so let her work it out and dont give up. i <3 you weirdos.