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Is there such thing as safe Christian dating sites?

It's difficult to meet Christian girls if you come from a family that is sort of non religious and still living at home. I devoted my self to god, at the start of the year. I am 18 and have just came out of a serious relationship. Is there such thing as safe Christian dating sites?

Public Comments

  1. Just as risky as any other dating site I guess. Does it really matter if you date someone whos not a Christian?
  2. No. All your base are belong to us. Lol, just kidding. I'm sure there are. The good news is, they're mostly free! The bad news is, they mostly full of pedophiles, which will ultimately result in a loss of self esteem (when you get molested) and/or eternal damnation! Besides, man, trust me. Dating sites.. No. If you go to church, find someone there, or maybe try attending some kind of activity (join a gym or something like that). Women on dating sites are usually trash, really.
  3. i think there safe although iv never been on 1 does it realy mater wat your parents fink its about you fink
  4. KEEP URSELF DEVOTED TO GOD AND HE WILL FIND A GIRLFRIEND FOR U TO HV PLEASURE.
  5. Probably not because the creepy people probly use "Christian" as a cover up lol. Why not try a church?
  6. Safe web sites? I think that's an oxymoron. Further, in my experience, the harder Christians beat their bibles, the less they act like they believe in God and heaven and hell. My whole family is loaded with bible beaters but they'd all leave my helpless 87 year old mother to rot. Me, the agnostic, is the one that cares that she has a decent quality of life and actually makes significant sacrifices to ensure that. The biggest bible beater in the family has stolen money from my mother twice - once $1,000 and once $50 and she believes she is entitled to it and she never even phones, visits or helps my mother!! Look at the scandals in religious communities: priests that prey on baby alter boys, ministers that dupe their flock out of fortunes (a la Jim Baker & Tammy Faye), the Inquisition, etc., etc. I could go on and on, but I really don't trust Christians until they prove they are trustworthy and I don't trust web sites generally - so, use your brain, be careful, don't fall in love in the first 15 minutes or on the first date, etc., etc., etc. Remember, you're not supposed to meet people in person who you met on the web. How do you know it's not some serial killer masquerading as your perfect match??? If you are such a big Christian, go to your church and get involved in their activities - go to a bunch of churches and get involved in their activities. Allegedly, Christians hang out in those places. Work with Habitat for Humanity - I bet folks who embrace Christian ideals are there and maybe you'd meet a nice person to date. I don't dislike Christians - I'm not sure that I am not one - but I don't trust them very readily and I do hold them to a higher standard than others because they beat their bibles and they are judgmental (look how freaked they are about same sex marriage even though the bible says not to judge because that is God's turf!) and their intellect is suspect because they are able to suspend reason and believe in something that can't be proven. The Christians I respect devote their lives to studying the history of their faith and studying how all faiths evolved and are intertwined. They go back and read the earliest writings if not in the original languages then at least translations. In order for me to transition from agnostic to believer, that's what I would have to do. And anyone who wants to lecture others about what God wants needs to go read the story of Job where God chastised those who preached to Job about what God wants. I distrust most of all those who lecture about what God wants or demands because the whole thing is supposed to be a mystery! I like and trust Christians who quietly live their faith and their actions demonstrate a commitment to being a truly good person and if asked, are able to talk about their faith without beating others about the head with their bibles and yammering on and on about their pedantic beliefs and using scare tactics to win converts.
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